Getting Together!!

Hey, Ladies

I was trying to get a little something together for the women. I am trying to find some women who would like to start and organized relationships between us. I wish to bring women closer together who might not have positive people to support their ideas and comfort them in time of need. So...I would also like to bring myself closer to other women who are doing the same thing I am or trying too. I know it is hard for some women to share personal things and have a strong relationship with other women who are already established in careers, marriages, and other groups of women. But there is room for you too! Sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone to get to were you want to be( you know). There is plenty of LOVE in the eyes of true women who have struggled and overcame adversities. To all the women who are stuck-up, materialistic, shallow, and full of drama step back and take a look at yourself. Believe me you are blessed, but keep it real share the info to the next woman who is making her way up the ladder. Don't hate congradulate!!!

TODAY'S LOVE

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE


I am feeling rather beautiful today, as I should everyday. I hope every mother had a great, " Mother's Day". Let the truth be told, LOVE is good for the soul even if you feel that your not getting or giving it. I just want to share a few things with you about LOVE. Giving love and being loved has always been a necessity for all man kind. LOVE can be so wonderful and even crazy, which ever one you prefer. There are a few people in the world who still doesn't know the meaning of LOVE. LOVE makes me feel warm, secure, happy, and blessed. I enjoy it when LOVE is natural and true, who can take that away from anybody? LOVE can be passionate, in some cases it was known to make some people sick. You know LOVE also can be deadly so, be careful how you show it!!! Basically, I just want to say that if you have a little LOVE to give from the heart then share some of it. Believe me it is needed!!

Family

Don't you hate it when there is one family member you can't get close to no matter what? Well, I have a problem like that with one of my family member. This paticular family member you can't take anywhere because no one likes him or her. That person is very mouthy, ghetto, disrespectful, and is a thief. No matter how hard I try to show this person LOVE, it seems to be impossible. So, I just came to the conclusion that I would just pray for him or her and keep my distance.

" The Kentucky Derby"

It's that time of the year again! Running, racing, drinking, and enjoying the perfect time of the year in Louisville, Kentucky. Derby time for me means good eating, great events, spending money, and spending time with the family. I like going to Churchill Downs during this time of the year there because many celebrities come to bet on the horses and see which horse will win the" ROSES" which is a band of fresh roses put together by hand. I love the atomsphere as well!! There also has been a thing where as Louisvillians will cruise Broadway and let it all hang out!! These cruiser look forward to this time of the year to show off their latest hott rides. Unfortunely, this year they are calling off Derby Cruising and locking it all down. So, make sure you have a pocket full of money to spend on the events around town!!!

Bring Your Child to Work Day !!

Yes, I did take my children to work with me and they enjoyed it!! My children were pretty excited about coming to work with me today, actually I wasn't. I really wanted this to be a learning experience for them, it was. My daughters asked questions, printed papers, and check computers. They were busy for a while and they had the opportunity to get on the kiddie sites. Most importantly, my children were seeing me interact with my patrons and see their mommie at work. I LOVED IT!! Sure enough they were proud of me.

Busy, busy, busy

Hey, to all the beautiful woman in us!! How hard is it to have time for yourself? I find my time being consumed by everyday life between the kids, events, work, school, and relationships. Unfortunately, right now I'm not in a relationship just picking and choosing and that even takes a lot of work. Anyway, I love spending time with my kids eventhough, the weekend is the only time I have free to be me. I just have a problem trying to balance my time. Yes, I admit I have poor time management skills(LOL). I have two beautiful girls who I am molding into strong women of the future. My young misses look up to me as they should, but it gets really complicated when work and my pass time get in the way of their fun, ideas, and perious time with their mommy. Right now, I am working on a medium between the mess I caused. I recently, bought a new car so that will help my situation alot, now I can plan things out more better for my family. I am trying to be patient when it comes to sat backs in my life, it's like I'm starting all over again. Don't you hate that? But I know what don't kill you only makes you stronger as other women had said in the past. Sometimes I feel that I don't really express my true ambitions, creativity, and passion for life that I like, due to the fact I am never settled enough to do so. It's like one thing after the other. I will try to set at least one day out of the week to pamper myself and have a nice treat. Making sure I give my girls some pampering too!!

LIFE: April 2006

LIFE: April 2006

Where The Good Guys At?

I find myself pretty smart and attractive, but does that count anymore in the world today in finding a nice guy, partner, or mate? Let's not talk about the other extras I posses. Any how I'm not perfect. Who is? I know that there are women out there who has a lot of great things going on for them, meaning: Educated, smart, attractive, and successful. I wonder if men are intimated by strong women? Men have approach me saying, " how attractive I am, but they were afraid to ask me out". That was pretty strange to me, because I am so down to earth, why would anyone think that. I know that there is someone for everyone, that's what I've heard anyway. Are people really shallow when it comes to looks, career path, and material gain? Is there any true love anymore? I know, I have so many questions. I find myself looking at the type of guys I have dated in the past and the guys I choose to date now and it has changed a little. I tend to look at the realness in people, but don't get me wrong I don't want to date a looser! A few of my girlfriends said they rather have guy friend's with benefits instead of having a steady boyfriend. The reason they said that was previous relationships they were in their guy cheated on them. Is anyone faithful anymore? And if you don't know what friends with benefits mean, it's seeing someone with no strings attached. How many people are doing that these days and keeping it real all at that same time? Is that why there are more single people and less marriages? I find the saying true that good men are hard to find, but I'm not really looking.

I also feel that having friends with benefits is coo, but that's not what I really prefer. I would rather be in a serious relationship with someone who is charming, intellectual, attractive, and funny. Can I get all that in one man? I have a problem with a man who has sexual relations with a woman behind close doors, but won't be seen with her in public. Even saying that, most guys that do really care for that person. We all know men love sex, so if he's not getting it from you he's getting it somewhere.

So, are women getting desperate in trying to find true love? How many times have you dated someone that wasn't your type, just because? I guess everyone would like to have prince charming, only in fairy tales right. I really don't think that some men like it when a woman can take charge and run her own business. Does it then turn into a battle of the genders(LOL)? I guess there's so much competiveness and everyone is trying to play keep up. Yes, society has changed in more ways then one. What happened to the good old days when things were simple!