Bring Your Child to Work Day !!

Yes, I did take my children to work with me and they enjoyed it!! My children were pretty excited about coming to work with me today, actually I wasn't. I really wanted this to be a learning experience for them, it was. My daughters asked questions, printed papers, and check computers. They were busy for a while and they had the opportunity to get on the kiddie sites. Most importantly, my children were seeing me interact with my patrons and see their mommie at work. I LOVED IT!! Sure enough they were proud of me.

Busy, busy, busy

Hey, to all the beautiful woman in us!! How hard is it to have time for yourself? I find my time being consumed by everyday life between the kids, events, work, school, and relationships. Unfortunately, right now I'm not in a relationship just picking and choosing and that even takes a lot of work. Anyway, I love spending time with my kids eventhough, the weekend is the only time I have free to be me. I just have a problem trying to balance my time. Yes, I admit I have poor time management skills(LOL). I have two beautiful girls who I am molding into strong women of the future. My young misses look up to me as they should, but it gets really complicated when work and my pass time get in the way of their fun, ideas, and perious time with their mommy. Right now, I am working on a medium between the mess I caused. I recently, bought a new car so that will help my situation alot, now I can plan things out more better for my family. I am trying to be patient when it comes to sat backs in my life, it's like I'm starting all over again. Don't you hate that? But I know what don't kill you only makes you stronger as other women had said in the past. Sometimes I feel that I don't really express my true ambitions, creativity, and passion for life that I like, due to the fact I am never settled enough to do so. It's like one thing after the other. I will try to set at least one day out of the week to pamper myself and have a nice treat. Making sure I give my girls some pampering too!!

LIFE: April 2006

LIFE: April 2006

Where The Good Guys At?

I find myself pretty smart and attractive, but does that count anymore in the world today in finding a nice guy, partner, or mate? Let's not talk about the other extras I posses. Any how I'm not perfect. Who is? I know that there are women out there who has a lot of great things going on for them, meaning: Educated, smart, attractive, and successful. I wonder if men are intimated by strong women? Men have approach me saying, " how attractive I am, but they were afraid to ask me out". That was pretty strange to me, because I am so down to earth, why would anyone think that. I know that there is someone for everyone, that's what I've heard anyway. Are people really shallow when it comes to looks, career path, and material gain? Is there any true love anymore? I know, I have so many questions. I find myself looking at the type of guys I have dated in the past and the guys I choose to date now and it has changed a little. I tend to look at the realness in people, but don't get me wrong I don't want to date a looser! A few of my girlfriends said they rather have guy friend's with benefits instead of having a steady boyfriend. The reason they said that was previous relationships they were in their guy cheated on them. Is anyone faithful anymore? And if you don't know what friends with benefits mean, it's seeing someone with no strings attached. How many people are doing that these days and keeping it real all at that same time? Is that why there are more single people and less marriages? I find the saying true that good men are hard to find, but I'm not really looking.

I also feel that having friends with benefits is coo, but that's not what I really prefer. I would rather be in a serious relationship with someone who is charming, intellectual, attractive, and funny. Can I get all that in one man? I have a problem with a man who has sexual relations with a woman behind close doors, but won't be seen with her in public. Even saying that, most guys that do really care for that person. We all know men love sex, so if he's not getting it from you he's getting it somewhere.

So, are women getting desperate in trying to find true love? How many times have you dated someone that wasn't your type, just because? I guess everyone would like to have prince charming, only in fairy tales right. I really don't think that some men like it when a woman can take charge and run her own business. Does it then turn into a battle of the genders(LOL)? I guess there's so much competiveness and everyone is trying to play keep up. Yes, society has changed in more ways then one. What happened to the good old days when things were simple!

Keeping Things Real!!

Hey, just wanting to blog a minute and get some incite on how other people feel about life's ordeals. First off I am new to this blogging thing! I just want to say," why is it some people get really upset when your keeping it real". Isn't realness and reality what the world is based upon these days? So, there is no more sugar coating anything, right? Well, I believe that it is important to have intergerty and character no matter who or what your doing. There is so much scandal and wickedness these days it is hard for some people to keep up there will to be good or a good person. I find it breath taking when I can get a person to come correct with me, because it seems like everybody wants to put on a persona. I always like to say be you, do you. Why would someone want to be anyone else? Would that be due to jealousy, envy, power, and money? Yes, I do find it annoying, everyone is meant to be different right! I feel that keeping things real makes it easier for everyone even if you don't like what's being said.